There are so many avenues to explore, so why not explore them?
Do it fearlessly, always expecting the very best as you do so. Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no ones definition of your life, but define yourself.
Make the most of today. Translate your good intentions into actual deeds. That which does not kill us makes us stronger. I do not seek. I find. First we form habits, then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or they will eventually conquer you.
The Universe Law is impartial. It will give you anything you believe. It will throw you garbage or roses depending on the energy you put in. You are the one in charge, and you must accept that and stand alone. If you think God is coming down to fix things for you, forget it. God is out playing golf.